A chat with Black Moms Connection founder Tanya Hayles

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Tanya Hayles, Founder, Black Moms Connection

When the boy child was 5 years old, he called me ‘Blackie’ and proudly told me that his friend from school told him that ‘Blackie’ was another word for Black people.  To say I was shocked, upset, angry was an understatement.

That moment, that time the boy child called my a racial slur, was my awakening.   Aside from the racial slur, this was the period when the boy child decided he didn’t want to be black, that he wanted blond straight hair. It was the time he would cry anytime I came near his head with a comb.  It was also the summer I had to explain to a crying six year old that no, he couldn’t have the toy gun that someone had bought him for his birthday, because a little boy named Tamir Rice had just been killed, playing with a toy gun in a park.  And, it was the summer that I was kicked out of a mainstream moms group because I was looking for support and asked if any other Black moms wanted to connect. Despite all this…it was the summer I found my village…Black Moms Connection.

In the season 2 finale of the Woke Mommy Chatter podcast, I chat with the founder of the Black Moms Connection group, Tanya Hayles about all things Black Motherhood….and Black Panther…just because.

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Published by WokeMommyChatter

If you're a socially conscious mom follow #WokeMommyChatter. It's a space where I'll blog about social issues from a mommy POV. It won't always be comfortable reading...prepare to be challenged. Of course they'll also be posts about parenthood, kids and the need for access to a winery year round to survive;). You can also follow me on Twitter @wokemommy https://www.facebook.com/wokemommy/

One thought on “A chat with Black Moms Connection founder Tanya Hayles

  1. I thoroughly enjoyed listening to this interview. You touched on so many things that I speak about often with my sister and friends. Keep up the amazing work!!

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